So i have lost my hubby 14months ago and i cant carry On..he was the best in my life and did evertying for me. He worshipped Thr ground i walked On. We have 2 daughters and today i was told to please let him go. How do i do this. He was my everything ...i cant function without him.thx
Who told you to "please let him go?" The only person you answer to about grief is yourself. How do you "let go" of someone who will always be a part of you? Did this person provide a set of "letting go" instructions for you to follow? What does "let him go" even mean?
My experience is that people asking / telling others to "let go" usually just want to feel better about themselves. Your grief makes them uncomfortable. Well guess what - TOUGH! It sucks to be them. You have enough on your plate. You aren't responsible for their feelings.
Are there any Grief Support Groups in your area? Attending one made a big difference for me.
Vic, I see you have stopped posting to this blog, and I hope that means that you have found some peace and renewed life after the acute phase of grieving the loss of your wife. I wanted to thank you for this blog and the information you have shared. My husband died 3 months ago, and I am devastated, but following in your footsteps trying to figure out how to go on. Your words of wisdom and experience have been invaluable.
So i have lost my hubby 14months ago and i cant carry On..he was the best in my life and did evertying for me. He worshipped Thr ground i walked On. We have 2 daughters and today i was told to please let him go. How do i do this. He was my everything ...i cant function without him.thx
ReplyDeleteHi Rb, I'm so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteWho told you to "please let him go?" The only person you answer to about grief is yourself. How do you "let go" of someone who will always be a part of you? Did this person provide a set of "letting go" instructions for you to follow? What does "let him go" even mean?
My experience is that people asking / telling others to "let go" usually just want to feel better about themselves. Your grief makes them uncomfortable. Well guess what - TOUGH! It sucks to be them. You have enough on your plate. You aren't responsible for their feelings.
Are there any Grief Support Groups in your area? Attending one made a big difference for me.
Vic
Vic, I see you have stopped posting to this blog, and I hope that means that you have found some peace and renewed life after the acute phase of grieving the loss of your wife. I wanted to thank you for this blog and the information you have shared. My husband died 3 months ago, and I am devastated, but following in your footsteps trying to figure out how to go on. Your words of wisdom and experience have been invaluable.
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